I find that, at times, I'm a little embarrassed to watch birds while in the vicinity of others who are not. This is not a real problem - just a curiousity about the hobby.
For example, when I'm watching on my front porch and I detect a car approaching, or see a neighbor step outside, I typically put my binoculars down in an attempt to look normal. I partly think I might be rude to continue watching (and seemingly ignoring them). As well, I simply don't want to appear strange to others.
Also, on occasion, a bird will position itself such that, in order to view it, I must look directly toward a house, car, or people. The worst is when I'm intently observing a bird near the street, and someone walks into my view. If it is someone I know, they usually wave their arms, laughing. Strangers typically smile and wave, or ignore me. I usually joke with whoever about "running off the birds". Occasionally, it will turn into a nice conversation about birds, etc.
Is it proper to watch birds in such an environment?
What experiences do others have?
Is there a code of etiquette for binocular use?
Some suggested etiquette:
DO NOT USE BINOCULARS ON THE SIDEWALK.
IN PUBLIC PARKS, DO NOT POINT YOUR BINOCULAR AT COUPLES, ESPECIALLY IF THERE IS NO DAYLIGHT BETWEEN THEIR BODIES.
DO NOT POINT BINOCULARS AT SUNBATHERS AT THE BEACH OR IN PARKS, EVEN IF THEY ARE WEARING SOME CLOTHING.
IN WOODLAND AND WOODED PARKS, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT OF USING BINOCULARS BUT BEWARE OF OTHERS.
IF ACCUSED OF BEING A VOYEUR, REFERRING TO A BOBOLINK MAY NOT BE A SUFFICIENT EXCUSE, THEREFORE TAKE CARE TO AVOID THE ACCUSATION.
Happy bird [and not human] watching,
Arthur 